He could recall the times when he walked along the beach next to his parents’ house in Perupok. The white sand was long between the waving coconut trees and before reaching the water edge where the waves started beating the shorelines. It was ideal for a long lazy afternoon stroll. He came across British soldiers who commandeered a goat from the villager without paying or compensating him and they butchered that poor goat in front of its owner, roasted it on a stick and feasted over them. He could see the face of the villager, angry and despondent and powerless to do anything. Those British soldiers had the audacity to enjoy the meal and took little care to pacify the locals, insensitive bunch, but they ruled the country! He wondered why they started to build a series of small concrete forts, dotted a few yards apart from each other along the beaches with narrow opening facing the South China Sea. When I was a child, the locals used it as a toilet.
I brought my wife and daughter Jasmine to visit uncle Zakaria every chance we got whenever we were vacationing in Malaysia. On one of those visits, we strolled along the beautiful white sandy beach and Tracey and Jasmine managed to witness those small British-built forts that were scattered along the Perupok beach.
It is my ingrained habit, perhaps out of familial obligations or nostalgic or to pacify my nagging insisting mother or for whatever reasons, I always ended up visiting my uncle Zakaria in Perupok whenever I am back in Malaysia. I would bring along my niece and nephews to pay homage to my uncle Zakaria. A retired school teacher who married my aunt Zainab, a younger sister of my dad, uncle Zakaria is one who facilitated my return to the United States in 1986. Soon after that he decided to retire from teaching and could no longer sponsor my education. I was left to mend for myself and the experience left me off guard, unprepared and feeling abandoned but those initial feelings soon subsidized and emerged then an awareness and realization that it is up to me to take care of myself and to live my own dreams. The unintended lesson was that I emerged ever stronger and more resilient. I also have the privilege of knowing deep within me that I have high adaptation skills. His wife Zainab did not approve of my return to the USA. She wanted me to stay put in Malaysia and continue working with the bank as a corporate banking officer. The last telephone conversation I had with her was when she visited my uncle Rahim and I happened to dial in him and he told me that his sister was sitting next to him. When we spoke, she sounded as if she was asthmatic often finding it difficult to continue talking. I have little hint nor a clue that something was wrong. She asked when I was coming home. She passed on in 1999 and it was a week after her burial that I received the news and between arranging the flights and a leave of absence from work, when I got myself to Perupok to see my uncle Zakaria and my cousins Zainora and Zainoha, it was two weeks passed her burial and when got myself to their front door in Perupok, they seemed surprise that I was home. My uncle Rahim showed me her grave. She was buried on the same cemetary as my grandma Senik and my grandpa Rahman.
The village was where the Japanese Red Army landed during its assault on Southeast Asia during World War II. The villagers were caught by surprise when they landed and marched across Malaya. Their experience with the former British ruler led them hopeful that something better was about to come and to their dismay and horror, the Japanese was worse. They could not believe their eyes when they witnessed the brutality and sheer wanton abuse freely dispensed by the Japanese to the locals. How could a fellow Asians doing this to their own kind?
My dad was educated in traditional religious Malay school but was conversant in English. He completed his grade 6 and was hired as a teacher. He taught the villagers basic reading, writing and mathematics. The villagers called him “Cikgu”. I remember when I was about 10 he brought me to the village he used to teach and where he met his first wife. We stopped by the road side, the villagers recognized him and they addressed him by calling him cikgu, teacher in Malay. He readily introduced me to them. He divorced his first wife when she refused to follow him to Manik Urai, a small village in the interior part of the state where the British created new villages to group together people as a way to fight and control the locals from interacting with communist guerillas who were determined to wrestle control of Malaya. After working as a teacher, he quit and joined the State Government as a clerk processing paperworks in a grand scheme of distributing jungle lands to the population.
My paternal grandpa, Rahman, was from Marang, Trengganu. During the time prior to the World War II, he was a crewman on a sail boat plying along the coastal South China sea from Marang to Pattani, Southern Thailand transporting grain salt. Because he sailed in the open sea, he was subjected to weather and during one of those trips, he and his crew were forced to take shelter on the coastal village of Perupok and that was how it all began. He met my grandma, Senik. All my uncles and aunts grew up in a small house on the beach facing South China Sea.
My earliest recollection of the house was when I was around 3 or 4. I was visiting them with my dad and I could see the waves beating the shore whenever I looked out of the window. The sound was perpetual and the house was surrounded by lots, lots of coconut trees. The wooden houses standing on stilts in the village was rather close to one another. The ground was white with fine sand which made it difficult for a little boy to chase and catch chicken or rosters that they raised openly around the house. Those animals never wondered far away from the house and to my amazement, the villages could tell which one was theirs! I remember my grandma brought me around to collect coconuts and I had to carry one or two with me back home. I am their oldest grandchild around. My older cousins were not in Malaya because my aunt Mariam followed her husband to Sumatera Indonesia. When he passed away, she decided to stay put and married Ahmad Bermawi who later was a colonel in the Indonesia army.
My grandpa Rahman was accepted in the community. I remember I was told how he used his skills as a sailor to sail from Perupok to Rendang or Perhentian Island, now two famous tourist islands off the coast, to bring back rocks and stones to build the mosque in the village. My dad told of stories of how he and my grandpa went fishing in the deep blue sea and how they struggled and escaped the vicious shark who refused to swim away from their tiny fishing boat. There were stories when they had to dive in to hear if there were schools of fish to decide if they should lower the net “pukat tungkang” in which they tied a bunch of coconut leaves to attract the fishes to congregate only to corner them into their nets “pukat”. Often during one of those dives, they were met by unwelcome shark visitor! I am sure the stories were somewhat embellished. My dad was only to satisfy my curiosity.
Today, the love for fishing has not gone away. My uncle Rahim, my father’s youngest brother, made sure the legacy stayed with the family. Unfortunately, none of my cousins (his children) nor my sibling were that fascinated nor interested in fishing as he was.
An Update as of December 2017:
I become aware that early in the month of December 2017, my brother Azam along with his wife, Zah and daughter, Aisyah joined my cousins Hamzan and his younger brother Azhar, and my uncle Rahim (Mariam's youngest brother) found their way to visit my aunt Mariam in Jakarta, Indonesia. Looking at the picture, Aunt Mariam reminds me of my late paternal grandmother, Hajjah Mek Senik.
Today, the love for fishing has not gone away. My uncle Rahim, my father’s youngest brother, made sure the legacy stayed with the family. Unfortunately, none of my cousins (his children) nor my sibling were that fascinated nor interested in fishing as he was.
An Update as of December 2017:
I become aware that early in the month of December 2017, my brother Azam along with his wife, Zah and daughter, Aisyah joined my cousins Hamzan and his younger brother Azhar, and my uncle Rahim (Mariam's youngest brother) found their way to visit my aunt Mariam in Jakarta, Indonesia. Looking at the picture, Aunt Mariam reminds me of my late paternal grandmother, Hajjah Mek Senik.
After the Sukarno's Konfrontasi in the early 1960s, occasional letters from my cousin Sukmayati brought great joy to my dad and the whole family, I was in primary school then but took an initiative to write her. They were in Palembang in South Sumatra at that time. I recall that Sukmayati was a nurse. The first Indonesian family members to visit us was Shahbuddin, Mariam's oldest son and child, born in Malaya prior to its independence. I remembered my uncle Zakaria came to pick us and brought us to Perupok to meet Shahbuddin. Shahbuddin told us of his travel from Indonesia to Kota Bharu and from there he took a taxi to Perupok by telling the taxi driver about his grandma, my aunt Zainab and uncle Zakaria and the taxi driver drove him to grandma's door. There he was standing at the door, announcing that he is Shahbuddin from Palembang and a son of Mariam. The shock and surprise that came with it and how he was received was a scene too difficult to describe.
Aunt Mariam and her husband Ahmad Bermawi visited my grandma in mid-1970s. They travelled from Palembang to Singapore and from Singapore, they took a train to Kelantan. I was told that when the train arrived in Kuala Krai, my dad went and boarded the train looking for his older sister. When they first met on that train, the years apart was overwhelming and big hug, tears and kisses were inadequate to describe the emotion experiences by those two siblings.
[Will write more about my impressions and thoughts about Aunt Mariam]
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